2022.01.28 16:04 LeavingTheNetwork Church planting at any cost
Stories | Wave 3
CHURCH PLANTING AT ANY COST →
How manipulation and abuse were systematically used to grow and multiply our church
ANONYMOUS | Left The Network in 2020
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2022.01.28 16:04 No_Fig2938 women's reaction to male sexual depravity and our aversion towards it is proof men are not "wired" that way
If there's something that I took notice of with whatever narrative men used to control women, is that the women's point of view is always discarded, while what men say is the undeniable truth, men choose what's the acceptable behavior, even when it comes to women's thoughts and feelings, they are the default existence and we must accommodate, as discussed here before, this is a cruel way to debase women's feelings and thoughts make us doubt our judgment, and lower the bar for men.
What's really interesting to me and what makes me know a lot of women are not admitting their true feelings is the reasons they give, it's always what men tell them, they never originate from the woman herself, but from society's (mostly men) manipulation into accepting these behaviors, it doesn't happen in a vacuum after all and we witness it all the time (as well as experience it ourselves), and it's really telling to see the initial reaction of women who were never told to accept certain acts (yet).
some of the variations I witnessed: "it's natural for men to ogle and undress women with their eyes, men are visual creatures!" "male sexuality is uncontrollable, we can't help but sexualize everything, men just think with their dicks!" "kinks are a healthy part of sexuality, me wanting to torture, hurt, and see women cry is totally normal!" "objectification is a part of male sexuality, you're cruel if you don't accept it! " "it's totally normal to masturbate to photos of unsuspecting people!" and whatever fucking travesty I can't think of, have always been met with disgust and strong aversion, as well as fear and discomfort, especially when having to physically deal of implications of those, not just hear them, even the worst of pickmeishas still get creeped out by men when they're so defendant of their depravity, and they mostly just hide their feelings.
Do you know what's interesting about disgust though and why I like to bring it up? it's an important feeling that has contributed to our survival, disgust tells you the thing that causes the feeling is harmful, and you should stay the fuck away from it, it also cannot be dealt with like other feelings, it's persistent. Also shockingly /s , those things do fucking harm us, objectification harm us in various ways, sexual harassment and SA is traumatizing, but you know how those types of men spawn out of nowhere, though are you seriously telling me that all men want to assault women? and the "good guys" just hold themselves back? what a reassuring thought! especially since the good guys have a halo over their heads! /s
hell, even men know we are put off by this, otherwise, they wouldn't have the urge to push it down our throats all the time and "convince" us it's normal, and some men even enjoy and get off that disgust, fear, and discomfort, it gives them power over women, it's as if men sexually harass women because they like them, how many times have I read a scrote write "if women knew how men thought of them they would be horrified hehehehe",
though only women are disgusted by that, men themselves are, I read many men write they're disgusted by promiscuous women (even framing it as most men's reaction to that, no men in the comment challenged them and just agreed to it), what exactly marks a woman that way? being exposed to other men, even other men seeing her nudes is enough for them to be put off by her, I believe this is the origin of the madonna whore complex, men feel disgusted and hatred towards the "whore" who is exposed to their depravity as a way to keep their view of themselves positive, because men are allergic to shame, I believe it makes using women for sex easier for men by lying to themselves that they're a bunch of uncontrollable dogs and their sexuality is naturally fucked up, and they're a bunch of poor victims, and it's the woman's fault that she exposed herself to that and pushed them into those acts.
this is obviously not the only way our natures are magically conflicting
-women feel jealousy and ironically start feeling insecure when their partner looks at other women, yet it's natural for men to do so and you're insecure if you don't like it (also male jealousy is accepted and natural)
- experiencing cheating is emotionally devastating yet men are unfaithful by nature
- women are monogamous yet men are polyamorous or even polygamous
- sex is mostly an emotional act for women, a lot of women feel a connection with men they have sex with, and sex is unfulfilling even when pleasurable with random strangers, yet sex for men is a casual act that is just done to make babies and for "fun"
- women don't enjoy sex without foreplay, yet it's normal for men to just want to shove it in immediately
-women can't enjoy sex if they don't feel desired, yet it's totally natural for men to lose interest in their women because they're "wired to be attracted to fertile 20-year-olds" and just use them as living fleshlights
-women want sex as a part of a relationship and not something separate mostly, and they get hurt being used and discarded by men, and men have to lie to get sex, yet men are wired into breeding as many women as possible?
- women need to enjoy sex to want to do it and find it really hard to give in otherwise (of course after being manipulated into it or out of "obligation") , yet women are not supposed to enjoy sex and just exist for male pleasure (for religious scrotes especially)
-sex can be a traumatizing experience for women even if consented to, and they feel vulnerable in that position with random men as it's totally dangerous, yet it's normal for men to want to have sex with women they can't remember the name of
I could go on, but you get the point, are you telling me that we women, who are supposed to fucking procreate with the other half, happen to want completely different things? and happen to just be put off by "natural" male sexuality? and are we, women, the result of the same evolutionary biology, happen to be functional yet men are the most destructive force, even to nature itself? evolutionary is really efficient ay?
although you can figure this out when you take notice of how much men contracted themselves all the time, and through truthful well made studies, we don't have to take men's words anymore and just keep going in circles, we should trust our own intuition and reactions, we are enough and a reliable source, for example, I have grown up in a sex taboo culture where male depravity is unknown to women, yet I've always known what objectification is even as a child (who still looked like one), and when men gave me that look I felt preyed upon, and several other women I know said they felt like they're naked or exposed, despite never hearing men admit to what they were doing.
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